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Preparing For Divorce? 4 People You Need On Your Team

If you've decided to file for divorce, you won't want to go it alone. You're going to need an entire team on your side. Filing for divorce can be a stressful experience; one filled with many challenges along the way. If you're not prepared for the problems you're going to face, you may have a difficult time recovering from your divorce. Not only that, but you might not be able to meet that challenges you're going to face. Before you file for divorce, make sure you're support team is complete. Here are four of the people you'll need on your team.

A Lawyer

When it comes to divorce, the first person you should have on your team is a good lawyer. This is particularly true if your spouse chooses to retain a lawyer. If you have assets, or debts to divide, custody issues to resolve, or you expect a fight, you'll need a lawyer in your corner. An office like Hougen Family Law can give you more information.

A Financial Consultant

If you're not sure where all the assets are, or there are a large number of assets to divide, you're going to need a financial consultant. It can be difficult trying to understand financial documents, especially if you're not sure what you're looking for. Without a financial consultant on your team, you might miss out on property that you're entitled to, or your spouse may successfully hide assets from you, which will prevent them from becoming part of the divorce settlement.

A Therapist

Divorce can be a highly emotional experience. You might even go through all the stages of grief during the divorce process, especially if your marriage was a long-lasting relationship. Depression can interfere with your ability to function in your day-to-day life. To help you through the complex emotions you're going to be dealing with, it's a good idea to have a therapist on your team. If you have children from the marriage, you might want to consider some family counseling sessions to help you all heal as a family.

A Vocational Counselor

If you were a stay-at-home caregiver during your marriage, you might not have the vocational skills to support yourself after the divorce. That's where a vocational counselor comes in handy. Your vocational counselor will help you find the training and educational programs you'll need to embark on a career once you're divorced. They'll also be able to help you determine your short-term and long-term goals for your future.

Now that you're going through a divorce, make sure you have your team ready. Having the right people behind you will help ensure a successful new beginning to your life after divorce. 

About Me

protecting your family during a divorce

Going through a divorce is hard enough, but to have to deal with all of the exasperating issues that come with going through a divorce when children are involved makes matters worse. When my ex-husband and I decided that it was time to move forward from a separation to a divorce, it took a while for us to actually make the move. This blog was created using my own personal experiences. You will learn what you need to do to protect your kids and your family from the terrible things that can happen during a divorce when there are children involved.

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